There is an article in the June Ensign titled, Pierced With Deep Wounds http://www.lds.org/churchmagazines/EN_2010_06_18___09206_000_020.pdf which is meant to be helpful and uplifting but it can also be hurtful and cause guilt. I'm always thankful for any Conference talks and articles which address this secret epidemic.
This sister had two things going for her which some of us do/did not:
1) Her husband loves her and wants to be with her, which, in one way, is demonstrated by
2) He confessed (and continues to confess)instead of being 'caught' and then 'admitting'.
Reuben J. Clark (of the First Presidency) said, "I would like to point out that to me there is a great difference between confession and admission after transgression is proved. I doubt much the efficacy of an admission as a confession" (April Conference 1950).
Take every talk, article, comment and be grateful for the exposure they bring to this tragedy that is being played out throughout the church. Only you are entitled to the revelation of the course you should take regarding a spouses addiction. You will have to find comfort in the assurances you receive from a loving Heavenly Father that you are still a valiant daughter of God no matter what course others are guided to take.
Be strong and of good courage!
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I have had (an LDS) therapist tell me, "Heavenly Father doesn't want you to get a divorce". Hmmm...I believe that is why it is called 'personal revelation'. We believe that individuals can receive personal revelation regarding their own stewardship. No one is entitled to tell you what Heavenly Father wants for YOU to do. If it were regarding choosing a marriage partner (someone telling you what Heavenly Father wanted you to do)you would see it immediately as false; you have to be allowed to receive these answers for yourself at all phases of your life.
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